Frequently Asked Questions.
Who do you accept as subs?
I am fully age and gender inclusive, Non Binary, Trans, Male, Female, Couples and all orientations over the age of 21 are welcome.​
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This being said as a Professional Domme. I vet my potential clients and I reserve the right to refuse to session with anyone at my discretion.
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How may I approach you?
A proper approach is important to me. A correct approach is the first step towards building a relationship with me. It tells me that you as a prospective is capable of following instructions.
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A polite email, telling me about yourself, a few salient facts, your age, your level of expeience,
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Because a potential should make yourself intresting,
make me curious about yourself.
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I am new to this world. What can I expect?
If your only experience of the BDSM word is Fifty Shades then please let me educate you:
I have been a domme for a long time and was a artist with the cane before those books were published.
A relationship between a sub and a dom is based on communication not coercion there is a big diffrence and I am quite happy to educate a nervous or new sub about this.
You may be nervous upon first communicating with me.
Do not worry, just relax and I will draw you in deeper than you can imagine. If you are curious about the Sub/Dom world then I can be nurturing, I will draw out and allow you to indulge all of the feelings you are wresting with.
I am proud of what I do and I am very good at what I do.
If you are a experienced submissive then you may have interacted with me brefore under my old persona.
I really want to have a session but I'm nervous.
There is no need to be nervous.
Make contact with me via my email adress and I will put
you at ease. Nerves are natrual to someone
who is new to this way of life.
Do you work online?
Yes , isn't technoligy wonderfull.
I work online as well as in my chambers, However I will not have my time wasted.
I also require some notice.
For online sessions and clips it is better to contact me and we can arrange it.
I want to come and visit you now.
Well you cant!
I vet my clients ande work to a appointment system.
Anticipation makes the experience better.
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Do you travel?
Yes I do. However I charge for mileage and if it is a considerable distance then I will charge for accomodation too.
Email me for further details
What do you do?
Ask me? I will say yes or no.
I do specalise in the following.
Humilation
Psycholigical Domination
CBT
Corporal or Impact Play
Chasity and Keyholding
Shoe and Boot worship
Candle/Wax play
Hair removal Waxing
Mentoring
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What do you not do?
TO MAKE THINGS EASIER
THIS IS MY RED LIST
Pegging
Medical
Smoking
Intimate body worship
Bloodplay
AB/Extreme ageplay
Asphyxiation
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There is something I am intrested in that's not on either list?
Thats fine. Contact me and we can discuss it. I am here to facilictiate your journey into the depths of submissive pleasure.
Ask me. If its something I don't do then I will politley refuse. No harm no foul.
As with all relationships things may develop as we get to know each other.
Do you accept Service and Lifestyle subs?
Yes. But its not automatic. I have rules and a protocol regarding this question.
You will have had to have sessioned with me regurlaly for a minimum of six months. And the tributed sessions will continue. Becoming a service sub is down to my discretrion and how our D/s relationship has developed.
Tribute and Gifts
TRIBUTE
In chambers.
30 minute spanking £80
60 minute Session £150
Of course a longer session is preferable for both parties, It will draw you in deeper and enhance your experience.
For a session longer than one hour, the tribute a extra £75 Per hour.
For Overnighters the tribute can be negotiated. And please be aware I will not accomodate a Submissive for a overnight stay untill we have sessioned regualry and know each other.
For some people, especally if you are new. the protocol of when to give the tribute to Mistress is a little unclear. The best way is in a envelope at the beignning of the session, even better if accompantied by a gift. As I say I am old school.
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Online charges start at £10 for 10 minutes and are negotiable for more time.
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GIFTS
If a submissive wishes to show their devotion to me then I do appreciate all gifts brought with care and consideration. I have wishlists on Etsy and on Throne. I also have a wishlist on Amazon for my special subs.