I have always been very dominant. as a child/teen i was seen as unruly and outspoken. yes i was did it bother me, no it didnt i always knew i was a 'bit different'

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my first vanilla marriage collapsed in my mid 30's in the earlier days of the internet. i was left raising 3 very young children on my own. then one day on an internet dating site (oh those were the days) i was approached by a man who was a submissive we got chatting he revealed he was attracted to me because of my dominance. he encouraged me to start my journey into domination.

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this was over 20 years ago (the dark ages i suppose) he helped me get trained by another domme. she was older and very old school. she instilled this into me from the start. then i threw off my kink training wheels and went pro domme. it was an amazing time the work was constant i supported myself and 3 kids.

then life started moving my kids were getting older and more nosey so i started to a step back. then i met vanilla hubby number 2 and those domme days were a memory. he knew what i used to do, he has never had an issue with it as long as it wasnt part of our relationship. I love him so thats how it has been for the last 18 years.

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Then life took a nose dive i had some very severe health issues. I was taking more pills every week. i gained massive amounts of weight and down the spiral went. my wonderful husband became my carer and life just stopped.

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2019 my life changed again my Dad passed away suddenly he left me enough money to change my life. my kids had all grown up and were on their own life path. i got weightloss surgery i lost 12 stone. my health improved 

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So what is a girl supposed to do. my husband and i talked for ages about me going back to being a pro domme. he fully supported me. he is my personal assistant now dealing with the website, the time wasters, chief tea maker. we are a great team.

So just over a year ago i dipped my toes back into the wild world of kink. yes things have changed alot since i was first here. in saying that my old school style seems to just as popular today as it was before.

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So what is my old school style. I insist on pre care and after care from a session. there are things i wont do {pegging being one come on boys im married and im too old for that lol} I have a sense of humour and i actually care for my boys. my stable has grown very well in this year. I love all my boys they are all different. i take care of them and in return they look after me.

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Now why pro and not just a play domme. i spend a lot of my time taking care of my boys talking to them and making sure life is good. i am bloody good at what i do as well. as a natural dominant you will never be allowed to top me from the bottom either.

now what i have learnt since coming back is the level of timewasters and fantasists is so much worse. if you want to contact me i dont ask for a tribute but i expect a nice polite email telling me about you. do not produce a menu of everything you want. its not realistic. dont send me a dick pic i will just want to kick it and i wont answer. i am not here for you to talk to in message to get your rocks off. if you want that be like my good online boys and you pay for that time.

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If you dont want to pay me or treat me like the goddess i am jog on buddy i am worth every penny. saying that i am not asking for huge amounts for my time like some do. i understand we are in a cost of living crisis. if you can afford a session then offer me an exchange in services.

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I love what i do. I take great pleasure in what i do and i am worth it. that is why i went pro. now what stopping you approaching me. you never know where the road of kink will go.