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About me

From a early age I was blessed with a headstrong and outgoing manner. Never a follower. Always a leader. This sometimes landed me in trouble in school. Where I discovered that the teachers could be persuaded to my point of view.

I did not hear the term Dominatrix till I was older, then a lot of things and feelings clicked into place. But of course like all things even if it comes naturally then the skill has to be polished which I spent years doing. I could tell you stories of my wild life. However I belive that one of the cornerstones of this profession is Discression. So for now belive me whan I say I am. no stranger to this and very good at what I do.

Before the Smartphone

I am naturaly dominant and have been in this world for many years.

I was pratising as a Domme in the late 90s and ealry 2000s and I am now back to the scene, bringing with me the wealth of experience

I have aquired over the years.

I am a old style Domme and I am proud of that fact.
I work on a quality not quantity basis. Because I know

my worth and I know my skills are top notch.

Premises

I work from in a discrete location approximatley 40 mins driving time from Cardiff.

2 hours from Birmingham.

3 hours from Heathrow.

3 hours from Manchester.

I only release further details of my premises when a booking is made.

I have always been very dominant. as a child/teen i was seen as unruly and outspoken. yes i was did it bother me, no it didnt i always knew i was a 'bit different'

my first vanilla marriage collapsed in my mid 30's in the earlier days of the internet. i was left raising 3 very young children on my own. then one day on an internet dating site (oh those were the days) i was approached by a man who was a submissive we got chatting he revealed he was attracted to me because of my dominance. he encouraged me to start my journey into domination.

this was over 20 years ago (the dark ages i suppose) he helped me get trained by another domme. she was older and very old school. she instilled this into me from the start. then i threw off my kink training wheels and went pro domme. it was an amazing time the work was constant i supported myself and 3 kids.

then life started moving my kids were getting older and more nosey so i started to a step back. then i met vanilla hubby number 2 and those domme days were a memory. he knew what i used to do, he has never had an issue with it as long as it wasnt part of our relationship. I love him so thats how it has been for the last 18 years.

Then life took a nose dive i had some very severe health issues. I was taking more pills every week. i gained massive amounts of weight and down the spiral went. my wonderful husband became my carer and life just stopped.

2019 my life changed again my Dad passed away suddenly he left me enough money to change my life. my kids had all grown up and were on their own life path. i got weightloss surgery i lost 12 stone. my health improved

So what is a girl supposed to do. my husband and i talked for ages about me going back to being a pro domme. he fully supported me. he is my personal assistant now dealing with the website, the time wasters, chief tea maker. we are a great team.

So just over a year ago i dipped my toes back into the wild world of kink. yes things have changed alot since i was first here. in saying that my old school style seems to just as popular today as it was before.

So what is my old school style. I insist on pre care and after care from a session. there are things i wont do {pegging being one come on boys im married and im too old for that lol} I have a sense of humour and i actually care for my boys. my stable has grown very well in this year. I love all my boys they are all different. i take care of them and in return they look after me.

Now why pro and not just a play domme. i spend a lot of my time taking care of my boys talking to them and making sure life is good. i am bloody good at what i do as well. as a natural dominant you will never be allowed to top me from the bottom either.

now what i have learnt since coming back is the level of timewasters and fantasists is so much worse. if you want to contact me i dont ask for a tribute but i expect a nice polite email telling me about you. do not produce a menu of everything you want. its not realistic. dont send me a dick pic i will just want to kick it and i wont answer. i am not here for you to talk to in message to get your rocks off. if you want that be like my good online boys and you pay for that time.

If you dont want to pay me or treat me like the goddess i am jog on buddy i am worth every penny. saying that i am not asking for huge amounts for my time like some do. i understand we are in a cost of living crisis. if you can afford a session then offer me an exchange in services.

I love what i do. I take great pleasure in what i do and i am worth it. that is why i went pro. now what stopping you approaching me. you never know where the road of kink will go.

Well here is a post i never thought i would need to write. but here I am.

I am an old school Domme, i have a lovely stable of boys who i love and care for. But this is not all i do. i also mentor and teach other Dommes and i also love to support and cheer on other Dommes. why well to make the scene a safer and better place to be not just for the Dommes but also for the subs and boys we have.

Recently I have been subjected to harassment for calling out bad practice. i would never try and poach an owned sub in fact if they approach me they will be asked to provide a written statement that they are allowed to speak to me. its basic respect. when i called someone out for doing exactly this not only did the Domme come after me her trainee's have made it a mission to attack me at any given time.

And it comes down to one woman in particular. she lives close to me. she has tried to poach boys off me she has sent some of her own boys to waste my time. she has progressed from that to copying my twitter videos. ok if you cant have an original thought... whatever.

But she has finally overstepped the mark. the owner of a local chip shop owns a house opposite mine. he had someone in the shop talking about me saying my name where i lived and did he know about it. now the only people who know where i live are my boys and I know i was talking to a boy who used her services who knew the village I live in. now discretion is MASSIVE to me. alot of my neighbours are actually my friends. yes they know what i do and they are all fine with it. this chap from the chip shop approached one of these neighbours and asked if he knew about me. imagine his shock when my neighbour answered yes and i totally support her. he put the guy straight and told him i am discreet. i keep it indoors and my boys are totally respectful. so outing me in this way hasn't worked.

If this so called domme decides to come and out me to my family and friends good luck they already know what i do and support me. crikey even everyone at the gym knows what i do and i get asked a lot of questions lol

So why write this? Well you can keep coming after me all you want. all it does is show others you are and unethical unscrupulous dangerous domme who will tear down and expose others im pretty sure that wont make your subs feel very safe with you. and quite frankly they should be scared.

So to those who want to take me down. Good luck I am a natural dominant and believe me nothing and nobody scares me. I wont get into online bitch fighting. I wont lower myself to your level and try and poach your boys. But i will call out your bad behaviour im sorry if my old school ways get in your way but I wont change them for anyone

MPR

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