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My Rules

Please read carefully

As a lifetime Domme, There is a set of rules that both the submissive and the dominant adbide by.

Discression and Consent

  • I am always in charge.

  • NO means NO. As a Professional I reserve the right to session with whom I choose. Sessioning with me is a privilege for the Submissive not a right. 

  • Do not arrive for a session under any kind of intoxication. No alcohol, no drugs,  no relaxants. This also applies to online and phone calls. I give and expect full attention with no distractions.  

  • Discression is both expected and given.

  • Consent is discussed beforehand and safewords in the form of a traffic light system. Or if gagged hand and foot signals are used.

  • With the safewords and Traffic light system, Amber is a useful tool. It can slow down a session and give the sub a chance to recover. 

  • Tributes and gifts are appreicated but should be discussed beforehand. I have wishlists on my social links.

  • Respectful language and behavior will get you further than attempring to provoke me though cheek. My punsihment is witholding rather than increasing. 

Contacting me

  • It is easy to contact me. A polite email through the link at the bottom of my pages. Or a polite introductory message though any of my socials.
     

  • And I do mean polite. Spamming me is not polite.
     

  • I do not use the chat messenger function on this website. So please do not message me through that.
     

  • Make your email interesting, tell me a little about yourself, your age, your level, if any, of experience, make me curious. Sell yourself.
     

  • Once email contact is made then I continue with messaging at first then a phone call.After a phone call is made, What I prefer is a coffee and chat meeting in a public place before there is any kind of session.
     

  • The submissive will phone me and withheld numbers are ignored.
     

  • I do not play message and text tennis with subs for their own 'satisfaction.'
     

  • However I do have a life outside of this world. To this end I may not respond to messages immediately and I have a cut off point that I do not respond to messages between the hours of 10 pm to 8 am
     

  • I am the Domme. I do not chase. If we are talking on messenger or text/phone then ghosting me for weeks and then popping up as if nothing has happened is not appreciated. This is not Tinder.If we are already talking then a social Good Morning, Or a quick update on your life a couple of times a week lets me know the doors of communication are open and you haven't suddenly been abducted by aliens. This rule goes for all my boys, regualr boys, first timers and the curious. I do understand that life can get in the way but it takes seconds to send a email or text. 

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